I found this article about how open we are about sex as a society, and how able women feel telling their partners what they do and do not want. What does everyone think?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/7000265.stm

I am not yet that open as to tell him too many things. I need to open more since it can be for the best

for me it's alot harder to discuss what i want with my bf. even though we have been together 8 yrs he doesn't get what i'd like to try in the bedroom. he prefers the same old boring moves.